Lies???
Haha. Thanks Anonymous for the suggestion.
Now back to my inner world….
I am not going to write a particular someone who lied to me. Sorry, no drama or fodder to feed your imagination. HeHe.
Just a question I want to pose to all the people who are reading this. Are you in your ideal job? Or at least applying what you are learning from the schools and university in your job?
I sure hope most of the people would answer ‘Yes’ at least for the first question. I did, well almost ideal, eh…. let’s say, 90% similar to my ideal job, thank goodness.
I recall in my schooling years, my teachers would keep on telling my classmates and I, especially those that are not the studious type, “You must study hard, so that you can obtain your ideal job” or “You must get good grades, so that you can go to a university, get a good degree and can live comfortably from then on” or anything to that similar effect. Well, that is many years ago, are they still doing it? Any teachers who are reading this care to share?
For those who are working, have you been told these ‘lies’ while you are studying as well?
(I must put a note here that I have tremendous respect for all teachers who has taught me, I thank them for imparting their knowledge to me, making me who I am today.) If you had your ideal job, your teachers may not be lying to you to a certain extent, but are you set for life? Are you sure you are going to live comfortably for the rest of your life?
Now during my time, the teachers are not really lying based on two things, firstly, that is what is happening then, graduates from university, most of them are set for life, the company would take care of their needs, and they have a huge pension waiting for them when they retire. Secondly, most of these teachers are in fact doing their ideal jobs. They enjoy what they are doing and they genuinely want their students to be good. But times have change, job security is a joke, having enough funds to retire and foot medical bills is some of the critical issues, the working adults will need to put in their list of problems. (I better stop painting such a bleak picture. Hahaha!)
But I must admit I felt a little ‘betrayed’ although they did not genuinely lie to me. I was just a fresh graduate, looking for my ‘ideal’ job during the year 2003. I was looking around and around but was not able to get the job I was looking forward to. Well, the government then told us not to be picky and should take whatever job that was offered because of the economic situation then. I was like, “Hei, you mean after I studied for so long in University, striving to get good grades (which I did), with a vision that was painted and reinforced so many times by my teachers that I would be able to get my ideal job if I obtain my degree, and now you say the vision is just a dream, wake up!” During that time, the pay was also pathetic. Having a salary of above S$2000 was considered to be lucky. Fresh graduates pay was only a few hundred dollars more than diploma graduates. That few hundred dollars is to pay us for the effort that we put in during my FOUR years of University??? And when I come out, I must start repaying my tuition loan as interest would start counting the moment I obtain that the degree.
Situation check: So I have to accept anything that comes, a broken promise, a degree whose actual value is worse than the perceived value and a tuition fee loan whose interest will start counting the moment I obtain a degree.
Wow, what a situation to be caught in. I am sure most of the graduates during that recession time would be in similar situation as well. Worse, since we have to take whatever that was offered and should not be picky, we were not able to apply most of the knowledge (Note: I did not use the word ‘skill’) that we tried our best and paid well over $15,000 to obtain, during our school and university time.
So teachers, are you still using the same sentence to persuade students to study? Can change? Lessen the pain that these students will face when they step out to work in less than 15 years time.
I would like to take the opportunity to say a big ‘thank you’ to all my teachers who have taught me during my schooling years. I still respect you all. *Smile*
