Saturday, October 07, 2006

Eureka! I think I might have found it.

Wah this morning when I wake up, the haze has gotten worse. :S. My throat starting to get dry quite fast. Better get a drink of water. Give me a minute ..... ok I am back!Haha! (Crazy leh, this guy, like that also want to write inside the blog.) Well, this is my blog, u can skip the part, but you already read it. :P

Anyway, I was doing a bit of compaining abt in my previous blog that I was not able to reach the goals I set out on time. Which means that things were moving too slow for my liking and I was finding the reason why that happen and any solution for it. The reason was finally found when I was chatting with my good friend.

We were discussing what was the starting point of successful people. And the conclusion reached was all successful man, they started with a thought. A thought that they WILL be successful. Of course, all people can come up with this type of thought, but the thing is people forgot to make it 'concrete'. What I mean is this, in one of my friend's blog, after reading some replies in it, I realise how I can make it 'concrete'. We have to use our mind and heart.

To make it concrete, the first ingredient is to believe you WILL achieve the life you want it to be. Next, you should use your mind to conjure up images of your successful life. For instance, your success terms is to achieve $100,000 passive income per mth. Now you do not imagine the process, what you should conjure up are actual images of what you will do when you achieve that. The key here is this, all these images are easy to imagine but what makes it concrete, something you can really feel and touch is you need to use your heart. You have to attach some feelings or emotions to it. Using back the same example, imagine you have achieved it, and you are going to a country to travel, now you need to attach the feeling of excitement of being in a new country, attach the fun and happiness in it as well. Conjure up more images of you and maybe your spouse spending a fabulous time there. Also conjure up images of you are enjoying a carefree life, reading your favourite book at your favourite spot. Then attach the emotion of feeling great that you are able to achieve what life HAS OFFERED to you to the image.

For me, I conjure up the image, of being in less developed countries helping people, see and feel the happiness of the people I have felt. I conjure up images of me and my wife strolling along the beach, enjoying the sunset. I also conjure up images of me and my wife travelling to other countries, discovering what the world has to offer and enjoying the rich culture and history of each place we visit. Now I used to have these images as well, but the thing here is that sometimes when I conjure it up, my other mind start to throw doubts that I can achieve it. But with emotions and feelings thrown into it, my mind and body can feel the images, almost like it is reality. Once my body is able to feel the 'realism', I get very motivated, and I believe I can overcome obstacles and STRONGLY believe I can achieve what I want. Which explains why I am writing this blog so early! Haha!

Now the story does not end here. You can feel strongly abt achieving something, but you still need another key ingredient and that is ACTIONS. There is no way you can achieve anything without action. Even gambling, you still need to take action like buying a lottery ticket, play cards and so on. Start by taking steps, that the current circumstances allow you to take. Like I mentioned in my previous blog entry, don't wait. Just do what you can do and resolve those you cannot do later, because you never know, by the time when you really need to face it, you might have develop new skills or achieve new resources that can help you overcome the obstacles easily.

I am going to apply all these and ACHIEVE what my life can give me! Reading my friend's blog and having a chat with my good friend, have now 'equipped' me with this new skill now. So guys who want to achieve your dreams, no worries, just do what you can do and you never know when the skill you need will pop out in front of you. And when it does, GRAB it!

Cheers!

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